A Moment of Reflection

I know from experience that we all get caught up in our day to day routines; meaning our thoughts about ourselves and others: what that girl is wearing, what she looks like compared to me, what she has that I don’t, I hate that she can afford that beauty product and I can’t, I’d be much more pretty and happy if I just lost this weight, etc., etc. But when it all comes down to it, none of that matters. All of this stuff that I talk about on this blog is fun and enjoyable, but don’t get it twisted – it’s not what matters most in life. Beauty is not just on the surface. Loyalty, love, friendship, and family ties are what matter most. Funny thing is, those are the things that we seem to focus on the least. Well, at least until something happens that makes us rethink our priorities….

This week I lost a dear uncle that loved his family and friends to the end. He was a wonderful man with a beautiful heart and a loving demeanor.  Death seems to put things in perspective, even if just for a little while before we need that reminder again.   He left behind two beautiful daughters, a son and a wife who are going through this time with strength and grace. THAT is what’s beautiful - not what they're wearing. Because when death comes, all of the small stuff just magically disappears. Haven't you noticed?

Please don’t misunderstand what I’m saying: that taking care of ourselves isn’t a priority. It’s the manner in which we do it is what we need to change. We need to be good to ourselves and to those around us who love us and whom we love. We need to be kind and giving, whether it’s a spa certificate to mom for Mother’s Day, or a simple “I Love You” on a Tuesday. Remember that the small things in life will make us happy; it’s the stuff inside of us that nobody can see or touch that will make a difference in the life you lead on this earth – not what you look like or the labels you wear. Remember that.